boss of change

Reality check:

All things change.

In general, I really like {and have a need} for things to change.

But as I encounter a number of changes taking place, across numerous life spheres, I realize:

I do not like change as much as I thought I did.

I do not like change being put upon me.

I have too many questions. I have too many opinions. 

I have too many things to say about the changes being made.

To put a finer point on it:

I do like {and possibly love} change.

as long as

I am the boss of change.